What do we understand as ROLE MODEL?
Who/Whom could we refer to as our ROLE MODELS?
Why do we think those identified people or personality are classified as our ROLE MODEL.
Here in the UK the Queen’s land, we can mention thousands of people that we could call or tagged ROLE MODELS.
Today’s Call a spade a spade is looking at one of our son - a genius as today’s role model. He is well known in our community as very industrious and committed to his work. He has the fear of GOD in him, this is the reason why Call a spade a spade went to town and we have brought him to you.
SUPREME PRINTERS from Kingsland High Road.
Who is this man?
Do we know him?
What does he do for a living?
What qualities make him so unique?
Well, this is the area that we are going to look at today.
Hey! lets listen and learn from this wonderful man.
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Sunday, 3 May 2009
Sunday, 26 April 2009
Double Life
Ms A contacted Call a spade a spade for advice and support regarding the step to take concerning the father of her two children.
Ms A informed Call a spade a spade that she met her partner while she was in Nigeria and her partner was on a visit to Nigeria. According to her they both dated for sometime before Ms A. joined him here in London. They were both living together like a good couple and before long Ms A fell pregnant and had her first child and sooner after she had a boy also by the same man. Ms A partner goes out to work like any other man to earn his living.
However one day Ms A partner told her that he was travelling to the continent and would be back in few days. Something strange happened, Ms A called the father of her children on his mobile phone, who answered the phone? Of course another woman, not just an ordinary woman. The said woman claimed to be his legal wife who had four children by him both male and female.
According to the other woman in the continent, she reports that she got married to her husband some sixteen years ago while in Nigeria and that due to her husband’s immigration status, she decided to stay where she was and got married to him to legalise his papers. However, Ms A reports that she could not believe her stories but the woman in the continent promised to e-mail their traditional wedding pictures to Ms A.
According to Ms A’s explanation her partner returned back to London without the knowledge of what transpired between Ms A and the other woman. Ms A told Call a spade a spade that she kept the secret until she received the other woman’s e-mail. Ms A then approached the father of her children, who was shocked of the revelations, however an argument engulfed and Ms A’s partner walked out and never returned. Ms A contacted the other woman through e-mail and she was told to try and sort it out with the father of her children.
The said partner is now with his first wife in the continent but Ms A and her two children have been abandoned here in London. Ms A is left to look after the two children on her own. Receiving nothing towards the support and upkeep of the innocent children.
All efforts to speak to the father of Ms A’s children proved abortive as he does not wish to speak to us, however the first wife told Call a spade a spade that it’s a matter between the two of them and she has no say into the matter.
The Questions are:
(1.) Why did Ms A’s partner behave the way he did? Why did he lie to Ms A. that he was never married?
(2.) Should this man be exposed and punish for his unfaithful behaviour i.e. possibly to report him to child benefit agency?
(3.) What do we say/advise to other men that still believe their secret will never come out into the limelight?
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Ms A informed Call a spade a spade that she met her partner while she was in Nigeria and her partner was on a visit to Nigeria. According to her they both dated for sometime before Ms A. joined him here in London. They were both living together like a good couple and before long Ms A fell pregnant and had her first child and sooner after she had a boy also by the same man. Ms A partner goes out to work like any other man to earn his living.
However one day Ms A partner told her that he was travelling to the continent and would be back in few days. Something strange happened, Ms A called the father of her children on his mobile phone, who answered the phone? Of course another woman, not just an ordinary woman. The said woman claimed to be his legal wife who had four children by him both male and female.
According to the other woman in the continent, she reports that she got married to her husband some sixteen years ago while in Nigeria and that due to her husband’s immigration status, she decided to stay where she was and got married to him to legalise his papers. However, Ms A reports that she could not believe her stories but the woman in the continent promised to e-mail their traditional wedding pictures to Ms A.
According to Ms A’s explanation her partner returned back to London without the knowledge of what transpired between Ms A and the other woman. Ms A told Call a spade a spade that she kept the secret until she received the other woman’s e-mail. Ms A then approached the father of her children, who was shocked of the revelations, however an argument engulfed and Ms A’s partner walked out and never returned. Ms A contacted the other woman through e-mail and she was told to try and sort it out with the father of her children.
The said partner is now with his first wife in the continent but Ms A and her two children have been abandoned here in London. Ms A is left to look after the two children on her own. Receiving nothing towards the support and upkeep of the innocent children.
All efforts to speak to the father of Ms A’s children proved abortive as he does not wish to speak to us, however the first wife told Call a spade a spade that it’s a matter between the two of them and she has no say into the matter.
The Questions are:
(1.) Why did Ms A’s partner behave the way he did? Why did he lie to Ms A. that he was never married?
(2.) Should this man be exposed and punish for his unfaithful behaviour i.e. possibly to report him to child benefit agency?
(3.) What do we say/advise to other men that still believe their secret will never come out into the limelight?
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Sunday, 12 April 2009
Entitlement to Family Inheritance
Ms A told Call a spade a spade her ordeal and would like you our intelligent and wise listeners to please advise her on what step/s to take.
She narrated her life story how her parents had three of them and she being the eldest of her siblings but her Mother later separated from her Father who remarried another woman who bore two children.
This woman had two children from a previous relationship before marrying her Father.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade that her Father passed away in 2006 (3 years ago). She reported that her Dad was very wealthy, having 30 houses in Nigeria and sums of over 50 million naira in his account plus acquired lands before he died.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade that her step mother refused to share her Dad's wealth because there was no will written before her Dad died, however Ms A reported that she has being to court in Nigeria to fight her case on behalf of herself and her other siblings. She told us that she has spent so much money to hire solicitors but says her Stepmother is highly influential.
Ms A said that all she is asking for from this woman for her own side is 20 million naira only and 10 houses but states that her Stepmother told her after all she is in London and that is her own share from her Father’s wealth. Ms A said her step-mother used to be very nice to them when her father was alive but suddenly changed the minute her father died. She reports that when her Mum went to sympathise with her Stepmother on hearing about the death of her former husband, her Stepmother walked her mum out of her Father’s house.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade the case has being in the court since 2007 and remains unresolved. She reports that her Mum is currently unwell and told her not to proceed with the case. However Ms A feels this is an injustice and needs your advice as she is planning to write to the head of Nigeria judiciary to step in. She reports that her other siblings are now in this country as was advised by her own mother to run for their dear lives.
The Questions are;
(1) Should Ms A forget about this property and move on?
(2) Do we advise her to continue or write to head of our judiciary to intervene?
(3) What are your opinion and advise for Ms A?
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She narrated her life story how her parents had three of them and she being the eldest of her siblings but her Mother later separated from her Father who remarried another woman who bore two children.
This woman had two children from a previous relationship before marrying her Father.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade that her Father passed away in 2006 (3 years ago). She reported that her Dad was very wealthy, having 30 houses in Nigeria and sums of over 50 million naira in his account plus acquired lands before he died.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade that her step mother refused to share her Dad's wealth because there was no will written before her Dad died, however Ms A reported that she has being to court in Nigeria to fight her case on behalf of herself and her other siblings. She told us that she has spent so much money to hire solicitors but says her Stepmother is highly influential.
Ms A said that all she is asking for from this woman for her own side is 20 million naira only and 10 houses but states that her Stepmother told her after all she is in London and that is her own share from her Father’s wealth. Ms A said her step-mother used to be very nice to them when her father was alive but suddenly changed the minute her father died. She reports that when her Mum went to sympathise with her Stepmother on hearing about the death of her former husband, her Stepmother walked her mum out of her Father’s house.
Ms A told Call a spade a spade the case has being in the court since 2007 and remains unresolved. She reports that her Mum is currently unwell and told her not to proceed with the case. However Ms A feels this is an injustice and needs your advice as she is planning to write to the head of Nigeria judiciary to step in. She reports that her other siblings are now in this country as was advised by her own mother to run for their dear lives.
The Questions are;
(1) Should Ms A forget about this property and move on?
(2) Do we advise her to continue or write to head of our judiciary to intervene?
(3) What are your opinion and advise for Ms A?
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A trial will surely convince you. Thanks for your patronage and God bless.
MICHAEL OLU OBALOLA (JP)
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Sunday, 29 March 2009
NIGERIAN GOVERNMENT, WHICH WAY ARE WE GOING?
Call a spade a spade gathered from reliable source that almost 400 Nigerian prisoners were to be sent back to our country to complete their prison sentence, the reason given by the British Government is simply that their prison is congested and can no longer accommodate prisoners.
The British Government was looking for a conducive prison similar to UK’s standard in Nigeria. Apparently, our country does not have such comfortable and relaxing prison, therefore in view of this; the British Government has requested that our Government should provide a more comforting prison within a short period even though the said prisoners happened to commits their said offence in the UK.
It was also gathered that our Government after a long persuasion from the British Government agreed to build and provide a comfortable prison to accommodate Nigeria British prisoners within a given time.
The Questions are;
(1) Why would the British Government want to send the prisoners back to Nigeria even though the offence was committed in the UK?
(2) Does the same apply to other countries in the world?
(3) Why would our Government agree to such arrangements and is this new comfortable prison funded by the British Government?
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The British Government was looking for a conducive prison similar to UK’s standard in Nigeria. Apparently, our country does not have such comfortable and relaxing prison, therefore in view of this; the British Government has requested that our Government should provide a more comforting prison within a short period even though the said prisoners happened to commits their said offence in the UK.
It was also gathered that our Government after a long persuasion from the British Government agreed to build and provide a comfortable prison to accommodate Nigeria British prisoners within a given time.
The Questions are;
(1) Why would the British Government want to send the prisoners back to Nigeria even though the offence was committed in the UK?
(2) Does the same apply to other countries in the world?
(3) Why would our Government agree to such arrangements and is this new comfortable prison funded by the British Government?
CALL A SPADE A SPADE NEEDS YOUR SUPPORT BOTH MORALLY AND FINANCIALLY.
YOU CAN SUPPORT OUR COURSE BY PATRONISING US.
WE WILL PROFESSIONALLY ORGANISE AND PLAN YOUR EVENTS/OCCASSIONS/CONFERENCE AT A TOKEN.
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Sunday, 22 March 2009
MOTHER’S DAY
MOTHER’S DAY…………….LET’S CELEBRATE WOMEN
Mothers/Women are unique and original, born for the best, created to be distinguished, configured to be envied and packaged for the best.
Women are the sweetest gift from God to us, no wonder the scripture referred to the world as incomplete without women.
There is no way we can ever really thank our mothers for all they do for us -
(a) Shall we start from been a loving, caring, respectable, problem sharing and house wife to their hard working husband.
(b) Carrying/going through that interesting full of comforts for nine months journey gestation and delivery of babies.
(c) Nursing and nurturing their babies till they are grown up and even continuously supporting their babies including their husbands when things, roads are rough.
(d) On top of all the above mentioned, women work very hard to support their husband to raise their immediate family and husband's family,
(e) Women work endlessly to make sure their children and husband become a person to be reckoned with in society. An example of great women of substance and women of great virtue is yourself but to mention but a few, Late Simbiat Abiola.
I remember my Father (of blessed memory) told us that my mother was his backbone, being a local teacher in those days, how much salary do they get per month. He told us that whenever he has nothing to put on the table for the household, he will not come into the house until it was late at night, when everybody was asleep.
There is no way we can ever really thank our Mothers/Women enough for all they do for us: nevertheless we must make it a habit to keep reminding ourselves of the various SACRIFICES women make while raising us.
MOTHERS DAY WOMEN APPRECIATION DAY: is the best time to say in words: HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND CARE FOR OUR MUMS, WIVES, and PARTNERS MOST ESPECIALLY WOMEN.
FROM MY DESK & MY TEAM: A little poem and appreciation to all WOMEN & MOTHERS
Remembering how dear you are, how very special too, because you brings such fond and loving thoughts on Mother’s day, because you’re understanding, patient and so kind.
You give help and support whenever needed, you are the best friend one could find, and you are first with warm encouragement whenever the sky looks grey.
Knowing your love is always there that will brighten any day.
You handle trouble and carry heavy burdens; still you hold happiness, love, and opinions.
You smile even when you feel like screaming and sing when you feel crying and cry when you are happy even laughs when you are afraid.
Your love is unconditional but sometimes
YOU FORGET WHAT YOU WORTH
Mums, Mothers and Women, you are appreciated and mean more than words could ever show/expressed and what better time than this one to fondly tell you that YOU ARE THE BEST MUMS/WOMEN IN THE WORLD.
H A PP Y M O T H E R’S D A Y.
On today’s Call a spade a spade we are looking at the following questions:
(1) Who are those Women to be celebrated in our community?
(2) Women are to be role model: Are women good role model to their children/ even to the community?
(3) What are the good qualities good Mum/Mother/Women should have?
(4) How does our culture impact into our role as a Mother?
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Mothers/Women are unique and original, born for the best, created to be distinguished, configured to be envied and packaged for the best.
Women are the sweetest gift from God to us, no wonder the scripture referred to the world as incomplete without women.
There is no way we can ever really thank our mothers for all they do for us -
(a) Shall we start from been a loving, caring, respectable, problem sharing and house wife to their hard working husband.
(b) Carrying/going through that interesting full of comforts for nine months journey gestation and delivery of babies.
(c) Nursing and nurturing their babies till they are grown up and even continuously supporting their babies including their husbands when things, roads are rough.
(d) On top of all the above mentioned, women work very hard to support their husband to raise their immediate family and husband's family,
(e) Women work endlessly to make sure their children and husband become a person to be reckoned with in society. An example of great women of substance and women of great virtue is yourself but to mention but a few, Late Simbiat Abiola.
I remember my Father (of blessed memory) told us that my mother was his backbone, being a local teacher in those days, how much salary do they get per month. He told us that whenever he has nothing to put on the table for the household, he will not come into the house until it was late at night, when everybody was asleep.
There is no way we can ever really thank our Mothers/Women enough for all they do for us: nevertheless we must make it a habit to keep reminding ourselves of the various SACRIFICES women make while raising us.
MOTHERS DAY WOMEN APPRECIATION DAY: is the best time to say in words: HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND CARE FOR OUR MUMS, WIVES, and PARTNERS MOST ESPECIALLY WOMEN.
FROM MY DESK & MY TEAM: A little poem and appreciation to all WOMEN & MOTHERS
Remembering how dear you are, how very special too, because you brings such fond and loving thoughts on Mother’s day, because you’re understanding, patient and so kind.
You give help and support whenever needed, you are the best friend one could find, and you are first with warm encouragement whenever the sky looks grey.
Knowing your love is always there that will brighten any day.
You handle trouble and carry heavy burdens; still you hold happiness, love, and opinions.
You smile even when you feel like screaming and sing when you feel crying and cry when you are happy even laughs when you are afraid.
Your love is unconditional but sometimes
YOU FORGET WHAT YOU WORTH
Mums, Mothers and Women, you are appreciated and mean more than words could ever show/expressed and what better time than this one to fondly tell you that YOU ARE THE BEST MUMS/WOMEN IN THE WORLD.
H A PP Y M O T H E R’S D A Y.
On today’s Call a spade a spade we are looking at the following questions:
(1) Who are those Women to be celebrated in our community?
(2) Women are to be role model: Are women good role model to their children/ even to the community?
(3) What are the good qualities good Mum/Mother/Women should have?
(4) How does our culture impact into our role as a Mother?
PLEASE VISIT OUR WEBSITE: www.abikeade.com and patronise us. We are an events planner, let’s handle your events for you. A trial shall surely convince you.
Sunday, 15 March 2009
Continuation of the last week's edition.
Last week's issue on Call a spade a spade is to do with our versatile TV Presenter.
Firstly, call a spade a spade would like to thank and appreciate our audience and contributors for your support.
This week is a continuation of last week’s edition.
Call a spade a spade received numerous calls from other creditors both male and female lodging similar complaints about same TV presenter. However it is our policy to give the other party a chance to either defend their case or agree to settle amicably, as part of the aims and objectives of this programme.
Call a spade a spade received a call from the Presenter’s Personal Assistant who reported that the Presenter is currently busy and would want call a spade a spade to narrate the case to him to enable him to relate it to the said Presenter. The Personal Assistant was directed to the blogspot - http://www.abikeade.blogspot.com and advised that the TV Presenter needs to contact Call a spade a spade as soon as possible. Up till now Call a spade a spade is yet to hear from the Presenter.
We would like to report that Call a spade a spade received various threatening calls for airing the case. Nevertheless the case is still under investigation, and we still await a reply from our able presenter.
Last week a “friend and mentor” of the said Presenter as he claimed contacted Call a spade a spade during the week, in a lengthy discussion he stated that he would like to help Ms Esther arrange a mortgage whereby she can take some equity out on the property at a later stage of which the mentor states can help in resolving the issue of £35,000 debts that we are talking about.
This week.
Call a spade a spade is looking at issues surrounding the vulnerability of women in our community and we believe it's worthy of discussion.
Most women wish to be with a man but some do not care who they go out with or date, all they care about is that the man is either a celebrity or buoyant in terms of money.
Some of the Presenter friend’s informed Call a spade a spade on how many women - single and married (still living with their husbands) flock round the Presenter.
The Presenter’s friends also told call a spade a spade about a particular lady who was preparing for her engagement, how she ditched her fiancé for the Presenter all in the name of celebrity. Call a spade gathered that these women wooed the Presenter with their belongings and money.
The simple fact is some men realise that these women posed to be desperate for a husband or relationship, some men then feast on their vulnerability. Some men too, who are married or better still in a steady relationship go about posing and promising ladies of marriage, which they cannot offer on the pretence that this women are vulnerable.
For the benefit of those who didn’t listen to last week’s programme or yet to read it on our http://www.abikeade.blogspot.com . Please do read it and post your comment.
We would like to discuss the following questions:
(1) Who is to be blamed for all these problems/atrocities, Men or Women?
(2) What do we say to married women who are caught in this act as well as men that engaged in such activities?
(3) Why is it that our community cannot say the truth whenever things goes wrong or why trying to put the blame on others (people that are threatening us).
(4) Where are we going from here?
Send us your view.
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Firstly, call a spade a spade would like to thank and appreciate our audience and contributors for your support.
This week is a continuation of last week’s edition.
Call a spade a spade received numerous calls from other creditors both male and female lodging similar complaints about same TV presenter. However it is our policy to give the other party a chance to either defend their case or agree to settle amicably, as part of the aims and objectives of this programme.
Call a spade a spade received a call from the Presenter’s Personal Assistant who reported that the Presenter is currently busy and would want call a spade a spade to narrate the case to him to enable him to relate it to the said Presenter. The Personal Assistant was directed to the blogspot - http://www.abikeade.blogspot.com and advised that the TV Presenter needs to contact Call a spade a spade as soon as possible. Up till now Call a spade a spade is yet to hear from the Presenter.
We would like to report that Call a spade a spade received various threatening calls for airing the case. Nevertheless the case is still under investigation, and we still await a reply from our able presenter.
Last week a “friend and mentor” of the said Presenter as he claimed contacted Call a spade a spade during the week, in a lengthy discussion he stated that he would like to help Ms Esther arrange a mortgage whereby she can take some equity out on the property at a later stage of which the mentor states can help in resolving the issue of £35,000 debts that we are talking about.
This week.
Call a spade a spade is looking at issues surrounding the vulnerability of women in our community and we believe it's worthy of discussion.
Most women wish to be with a man but some do not care who they go out with or date, all they care about is that the man is either a celebrity or buoyant in terms of money.
Some of the Presenter friend’s informed Call a spade a spade on how many women - single and married (still living with their husbands) flock round the Presenter.
The Presenter’s friends also told call a spade a spade about a particular lady who was preparing for her engagement, how she ditched her fiancé for the Presenter all in the name of celebrity. Call a spade gathered that these women wooed the Presenter with their belongings and money.
The simple fact is some men realise that these women posed to be desperate for a husband or relationship, some men then feast on their vulnerability. Some men too, who are married or better still in a steady relationship go about posing and promising ladies of marriage, which they cannot offer on the pretence that this women are vulnerable.
For the benefit of those who didn’t listen to last week’s programme or yet to read it on our http://www.abikeade.blogspot.com . Please do read it and post your comment.
We would like to discuss the following questions:
(1) Who is to be blamed for all these problems/atrocities, Men or Women?
(2) What do we say to married women who are caught in this act as well as men that engaged in such activities?
(3) Why is it that our community cannot say the truth whenever things goes wrong or why trying to put the blame on others (people that are threatening us).
(4) Where are we going from here?
Send us your view.
FOR ALL YOUR EVENTS VISIT OUR WEBSITE: http://www.abikeade.com/.
We can package your events for you at a very low cost and you could also advertise your products on our site for a token fee.
WE PROVIDE AN EXCELLENT SERVICE.
Call us for your quotations today.
A TRIAL WILL CONVINCE YOU.
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